I saw Dr. Raphael for my first ultrasound when I was almost 9 weeks pregnant. He was absolutely terrible and made what should have been a wonderful, joyful moment confusing, frustrating, and upsetting.

First he got the fetal age wrong, came in telling me I was 6 weeks, I said I thought I was 9 weeks, we went back and forth a few times and then he looked at the monitor and said, "Oh yeah, I mean almost 9 weeks." Then he announced I was pregnant and clearly thought his job was done at that po...